Spencer Update

Just a quick update about Spencer. I've decided that Heavenly Father does give us the desire of our hearts even when we don't pray for them. Once we start acting toward a goal I think he puts certain people in our path or prompts us with possible solutions to our problems- even when we didn't think to ask. I'm using this post to organize my thoughts about what has been happening and also share it with all of my family and friends.

We of course, pray for Spencer daily as a family, but I hadn't prayed for this specific thing- I had only set a goal on Saturday to research options. Here's what happened:

Monday I started researching options for respite care (in home care) to give me a break and help with Spencer when I'm here alone. I'm trying to find someone now so that when school goes on spring break or summer break begins we have this person on hand. As most of you know Spencer has been dealing with some added issues lately making our day to day routines more difficult.

Tuesday was kind of a blah day for me... won't go into details, but it was a feeling down for no apparent reason kind of day. However, a friend from Frontenac ward called who I haven't heard from in ages and gave me a referral to a massage therapist who is starting to work with kids who have autism and is offering 3 free sessions to see if it works out. How cool is that!?

Wednesday (today) a bunch of things have lined up. This is exciting!

1. I called a friend to ask how old her home schooled son was and found out he's turning 16 over the summer! Very cool since our funding through DMH is payable to 16 or older. He's looking for income and it may work out. All because I felt prompted to ask his age when I was talking with his mom.

2. Our case worker called from DMH and told me about a program where kids who have autism can sometimes qualify for free therapy! They include sensory integration therapy, speech and occupational therapy plus more. Very cool. She also recommended we use our DMH funds for this coming year for behavioral therapy- something I had started researching on Monday.

3. All of this prompted me to remember I had a referral from last week for a developmental psychologist who works with pre teen and teens who have autism and other developmental disabilities and I called her to talk about what her treatment sessions look like and see if it's a good fit for Spencer.

All in all I feel like this week has been very productive in regards to Spencer. Imagine what might happen if I actually prayed for this specifically? (Which we are doing by the way now! :)